You’ve been dating this guy for a while now. You can write a million things you know about him. But on that list, what won’t be included is whether he sees you as a girlfriend only or he really wants to marry you. Well, here’s a checklist to help you find that out:
1. When you think he will not marry you
That you think he will not marry you is the best sign that he will not. You, who are wearing the shoe, have felt its terrible pinch and it is very likely that pinch is all the proof you need.
2. When he makes many excuses
Insufficient money for a wedding ceremony, trouble at home, concerns at work, time taken by personal projects – everyday, he gives a new excuse. If he really wants to marry you, those excuses won’t matter even when they truly exist.
3. When he avoids the marriage talk
Whether he is smooth talker or a shy person, you can’t miss it when he avoids every topic on marriage. Instead, having the talk, he picks a fight. Sister, if you wish to get married, that man has no such plans with you.
4. When he doesn’t introduce you to close family
You might have a cousin or two but not his intimate family members. No man who has found a treasure that he wants to have forever would fear to show it to the most important people in his life.
5. When he reschedules “meeting the family”
After you’ve probably fought with him about meeting your family or him meeting yours, he fixes a date for the meet. Then something important comes up on that date and on the new date and it is an endless circle. Aunty, run for your life.
6. He doesn’t make long term plans with you
When a guy believes he has a tomorrow with you, he doesn’t just watch tomorrow come; he plans for it with you. If he isn’t doing that, means he knew the end from the beginning.
7. He suggests a trial period
A guy who has plans to marry a girl knows he would even before they ever talk about marriage. If he starts to propose a trial period to “see how it works”, he’s probably having second thoughts or had no first thought on it at all.
8. His petty criticisms
It’s not just that he finds faults in everything you do; it’s how he talks about them. What then makes you think that a guy who cannot accept you flaws will go on a knee to ask for forever with you?
9. An engagement with no wedding date
For your sake, take that ring off! That is no engagement – it is a modern prison you need to go Jack Bauer on – break out. A guy who plans to marry you has a date even before he buys the ring.
10. When he says he’s waiting for the right time
There’s nothing long in waiting for the right time. It’s actually the best thing to do if don’t plan on marrying two times because the first time was a mistake. But when that “right time” seems to be taking forever, you’ve got to ask yourself if he’s waiting for the right time or the right person.
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